Instead of shutting down, Jesse has decided to step up and use the opportunity to educate people who may genuinely want to better understand his identity. 'Sometimes I get dozens of those questions a day,' he told POPSUGAR. Jesse is hit with these rapid-fire questions constantly, both in person and on social media, where he has developed a large following on TikTok. 'No, I got pregnant and gave birth to her.' So you probably used a surrogate or adopted?' 'So I'm understanding you're trans, right?' When Jesse 'Sulli' Sullivan, a 31-year-old trans man, is asked questions about how he came to be a parent to his now-12-year-old daughter, Arlo, the conversation usually goes something like this: